Unmasking the Truth

 Nowadays, it appears that the 'truth' prefers to hide behind conformism in all social groups, formal and informal. It is common for feelings to be disguised under a mask of complacency, or even hypocrisy. One can convince another of their fidelity, admiration, and dedication while concealing different feelings in the depths of their hearts if they want to achieve something. It seems this lack of sincerity is necessary to rise up the ladder of success, maintain useful mundane relationships, and achieve your goals. The good news is that it works!


We tend to hide our true feelings because being totally honest makes us vulnerable. In doing so, we end up facing depression. The reason is the deeply ingrained dissatisfaction (and guilt) that comes from feeling compelled (but still choosing) to wear "clothes" that aren't ours.

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